This allows the "needs to be reloaded" indication to be set in the close
process, as is the case for ERF; having a routine that returns the value
of that indication is not useful if it gets seet in the close process,
as the handle for the wtap_dumper is no longer valid after
wtap_dump_close() finishes.
We also get rid of wtap_dump_get_needs_reload(), as callers should get
that information via the added argument to wtap_dump_close().
Fixes#17989.
We keep our various packaging assets in the "packaging" directory. Move
the Debian assets there. dpkg-buildpackage doesn't seem appear to have a
"debian directory path" option, but symlinking worked in my test
container.