When hunting a conn use count bug, it was very hard to figure out who's (not)
using the conn. To ease tracking down this bug and future bugs, explicitly name
what a conn is being reserved for, and track in a bit mask.
Show in the DREF logs what uses and un-uses a conn. See the test expectation
updates, which nicely show how that clarifies the state of the conn in the
logs.
On errors, log them, but don't fail hard: if one conn use/un-use fails, we
don't want to crash the entire MSC before we have to.
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